listen more

If you want to hit it off well with others,

here is a sure fire formula for success.
Listen to others;when one listens, one is
aware of others feelings.Talk in terms of
other person's interests.The great blunder
one can make is to turn the conversational
spotlight on oneself.A good conversationalist
is a good listener.To be interesting,be interested!
It is good to keep in mind that the person you
are talking to is more interested in himself,
his needs and problems than he is in you.
Think of that next time when you start a
conversation.